{"id":13824,"date":"2020-01-31T10:31:00","date_gmt":"2020-01-31T09:31:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/?p=13824"},"modified":"2020-01-31T10:31:00","modified_gmt":"2020-01-31T09:31:00","slug":"hello-darling-how-was-your-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/en\/hallo-schatz-wie-war-dein-tag\/","title":{"rendered":"Hello, darling, how was your day?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Chagall-1-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Two lovers \" class=\"wp-image-13840\" width=\"589\" height=\"589\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Chagall-1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Chagall-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Chagall-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Chagall-1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Chagall-1-350x350.jpg 350w, https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Chagall-1.jpg 1240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 589px) 100vw, 589px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>It is the questions that give rise to what remains. - Erich K\u00e4stner<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\"Hello, darling, how was your day?\" <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With this phrase\nis how many couples greet each other in the evening. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nice, sweet and familiar. But perhaps a little boring in the long run. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At least for me as a\nAs a single woman, I find it monotonous to always be asked the same thing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I love <a href=\"https:\/\/down-to-earth.de\/shop\/starke-fragen-7-impulshefte-voll-starker-fragen\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Questions. <\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Good, varied\nquestions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Creating closeness through questions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>I particularly like\nthe 36 questions posed by the scientist Arthur Aron. He wanted to test whether questions\ncan help to create lasting closeness\ncreate lasting closeness. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The astonishing\nresult: Yes. And even more. The closeness and bond remained - even months\nmonths after the question time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have compiled the 36 questions in a free ebook. You can download it <a href=\"https:\/\/down-to-earth.de\/36-fragen-zum-verlieben-e-book\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">here<\/a> download.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img alt=\"36 questions to fall in love again.\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/36-Fragen-Cover-1024x1024.jpg\" class=\"wp-image-13829\" width=\"258\" height=\"258\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/36-Fragen-Cover-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/36-Fragen-Cover-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/36-Fragen-Cover-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/36-Fragen-Cover-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/36-Fragen-Cover.jpg 1240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 258px) 100vw, 258px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>My tips for a special (Valentine's) day:  <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Buy flowers for your loved one <\/li><li>Find a nice place <\/li><li>Take your time to answer the questions. <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">No romantic relationship in sight? <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>There's no one special in your life right now. No problem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can also ask friends the question. Or tell God in conversation how you would answer the questions. This is very deepening. I've tried it out! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Questions on paper <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you prefer analogue, you can download the <a href=\"https:\/\/down-to-earth.de\/shop\/entdecker-fragen-impulse-menschen-kennen-zu-lernen-kerstin-hack\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Discovery questions<\/a> get - an impulse booklet from me with over 100 profound questions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Entdecker-fragen57835ff36a910.jpg\" class=\"wp-image-13832\" width=\"247\" height=\"247\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Entdecker-fragen57835ff36a910.jpg 400w, https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Entdecker-fragen57835ff36a910-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Entdecker-fragen57835ff36a910-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Entdecker-fragen57835ff36a910-350x350.jpg 350w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 247px) 100vw, 247px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>My questions are not scientifically proven, but many people have told me that the questions have taught them things about each other that they have not experienced in decades. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>\"I was travelling with my 90-year-old father and often didn't know what to say to him. We've known each other for so long. I would disappear briefly before every meal, choose two or three questions and then ask him. We had wonderful conversations.\" <\/p><cite>Rosemarie <\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>A few questions to try out right away <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The questions come from the <a href=\"https:\/\/down-to-earth.de\/shop\/entdecker-fragen-impulse-menschen-kennen-zu-lernen-kerstin-hack\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Discovery questions<\/a> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>What's the first thing that comes to mind when you think of your childhood?<\/li><li>What's the best compliment you've ever received?<\/li><li>Which of your strengths benefits other people the most?<\/li><li>Imagine you were someone else? What would you envy most about yourself?<\/li><li>Which person has influenced you the most and how?<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>I bet that a Valentine's Day with these questions will be remembered forever.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now I have two questions for you: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>What did you experience with these questions? <\/li><li>What are your favourite questions?<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Please write to me about your experiences. I am very curious!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ich liebe Fragen. <\/p>\n<p>Gute, abwechslungsreiche Fragen. <\/p>\n<p>Besonders sch\u00f6n finde ich die 36 Fragen des Wissenschaftlers Arthur Aron. Er wollte testen, ob Fragen helfen k\u00f6nnen,  bleibende N\u00e4he herzustellen. <\/p>\n<p>Das erstaunliche Resultat: Ja. Und mehr noch. Die N\u00e4he und Verbundenheit blieb \u2013 auch Monate nach der Fragezeit &#8211; erhalten. <\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":13829,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"F\u00fcr alle, die nicht wollen, dass ihre Beziehungen im Einheitsbrei stecken bleiben gibt es einen Weg: Fragen. 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