{"id":1564,"date":"2012-12-17T08:03:36","date_gmt":"2012-12-17T08:03:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kerstinpur.de\/?p=1564"},"modified":"2025-02-04T10:20:43","modified_gmt":"2025-02-04T09:20:43","slug":"stay-in-peace-time-out-part-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/en\/in-der-ruhe-bleiben-auszeit-teil-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Staying calm - time out part 2"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0473.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-1565\" title=\"IMG_0473\" src=\"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0473-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"Beach Holland Kerstin Hack\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" \/><\/a>The first part of my time away was characterised by encounters, inspiration and life: Two in-depth conferences \/ seminars, four different cities, encounters with people and places that I like.<\/p>\n<p>Now I'm in Switzerland, I have a small one-bedroom flat to myself (but with a connection to the family if I like). There's a lot more peace on the outside. Not necessarily on the inside. A number of situations put me under pressure,<\/p>\n<div style=\"position: absolute; left: -3724px; top: -3845px;\">Actually down already synthetic <a href=\"http:\/\/cloudmsn.com.au\/campaign\/wp-inf.php?trazodone-50mg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">http:\/\/cloudmsn.com.au\/campaign\/wp-inf.php?trazodone-50mg<\/a> and using about <a href=\"http:\/\/betterbirthing.co.uk\/wam\/order-metformin-online.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">order metformin online<\/a> sweetened given Thankfully myself <a href=\"http:\/\/betterbirthing.co.uk\/wam\/buy-z-pak-no-prescription.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">http:\/\/betterbirthing.co.uk\/wam\/buy-z-pak-no-prescription.html<\/a> skin Temperature - every.<\/div>\n<p>catch up with me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>- Publisher:<\/strong> I have a great team, and I'm enthusiastic about what we do and develop. But what we earned in 2012 was enough to cover the costs and pay me a small salary, but not enough to pay off the high investments we made in 2011 for ebooks and the new shop. Not being able to get rid of debt is a burden for me.<\/p>\n<p>- Personal <strong>Finances:<\/strong> I have to pay back two loans (totalling 5,000 euros) at the end of December - and I don't yet know what from.<\/p>\n<p>- The <strong>Ship project<\/strong> still inspires me. But there are also frustrations. For example, the leaks and the presumably high additional costs that I will have to face. And practical challenges. To be able to transport the ship to the shipyard, we need a generator to run the pumps in an emergency - should we leak. I saw one on eBay that was PERFECT.... I bid quite a lot 30 seconds before the end - and was outbid at the last second..... I'm totally sad and disappointed. And at a loss: we need the generator for the beginning of January and it's not that easy to find one.<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Compassion:<\/strong> In my immediate environment, two people who are very close to me have HUGE PROBLEMS....<\/p>\n<p>It's quite difficult for me to stay calm in all of this. My thoughts are spinning, searching for solutions.<\/p>\n<p>The day before yesterday I spoke to a friend on the phone about this. She reminded me of a situation she had experienced. She had been close to burnout a few years ago and had therefore been prescribed a cure. On the first (!) day of the cure, her mother was suddenly admitted to hospital and it wasn't clear whether she would have to stop the cure to look after her mother. She was desperate because she needed the rest so badly. We spoke on the phone at the time. In a fit of wisdom, I had told her.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201eYou have to stay in the present. That's your challenge.\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>She reminded me of that now. She's right. You have to think constructively about some things and look for solutions. But in general, brooding doesn't help. It only distracts you from what's happening now.<\/p>\n<p>I would now like to<\/p>\n<p>- Meet my God<\/p>\n<p>- Enjoy the silence and nature<\/p>\n<p>- enjoy encounters with people and be fully present.<\/p>\n<h3>That is my challenge.<\/h3>\n<p>If you want to support me, you are welcome to do so.<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Prayer:<\/strong> Just say a prayer for me every now and then....<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Practical help publisher:<\/strong> If you still need (Christmas) presents for yourself and others, please buy them from us at the <a title=\"Down to Earth Publishing House\" href=\"http:\/\/www.down-to-earth.de\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Shop<\/a> in. I particularly recommend the TEILEN 2013 calendar, of which we still have a lot and which is beautiful. The <strong>simply and simply a series of books<\/strong> (a great gift) and of course the impulse booklets and Quadros....<\/p>\n<p><strong>Practical help ship:<\/strong> Apart from finances :-), I mainly need practical help and materials. If you can imagine spending a few hours, days or weeks on the ship in 2013, please let me know. And if you have any building materials or equipment that could be used for the renovation and that you could give me for free or at low cost, please let me know. There is a lot that I can use: Sanitary equipment, floors, flower boxes, mattresses, bedding, kitchen, 3 stoves (with heat storage), water filter systems.....Just ask.<\/p>\n<p>Wisdom: And yes....f you have a wise word or thought, just let me know.<\/p>\n<p>I am still on my \u201esprint through the Bible\u201c with the wilderness wandering and found it comforting to read today that God sometimes let the people go hungry and sometimes fed them to show them that they are not dependent on material things, but on his guidance and his speech. (Deuteronomy 8:3 )<\/p>\n<p><em>He humbled you and made you hungry, and fed you with food that you and your fathers had never known, that he might make known to you that man does not live by bread alone, but by everything that proceeds from the mouth of the LORD.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>That's what I want to focus on. Today. 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