{"id":16407,"date":"2021-10-14T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-10-14T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/?p=16407"},"modified":"2025-02-04T10:20:07","modified_gmt":"2025-02-04T09:20:07","slug":"a-simple-technique-to-help-you-finally-achieve-your-goals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/en\/eine-einfache-technik-die-dir-hilft-deine-ziele-endlich-zu-erreichen\/","title":{"rendered":"A simple technique to help you finally achieve your goals"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n\n\n<\/p><table><tbody><tr><td><p>Perhaps you are one of those people who have already decided to lose weight: The scales were in the red, your trousers no longer fit and your general well-being was limited. So you made a decision: \"It can't go on like this! I want to lose weight!\" You may have specified your goal: \"I have to lose ten kilos by the start of the swimming season.\" Then you made a plan, learnt about healthy eating and changed a few habits. Maybe you lost weight with the help of others in a group, maybe on your own. After a few weeks or months, you've reached your goal - congratulations! Especially if you are still maintaining your desired weight today.<\/p><h2>Nothing happens?<\/h2><p>Or do you know what it's like: some topics have been on your mind for years and you can't get anywhere. There are two for me:<\/p><ul><li>My weight: The 5 kilos over my favourite weight that just won't go away.<\/li><li>My crusty corners: A few piles of paper in the office and the full machine room.<\/li><\/ul><p>Most people would say: It's not that bad. And it's tidy in your house - the piles are usually sorted by topic in transparent sleeves.<\/p><p>But I am dissatisfied. And do something. Half-heartedly.<\/p><p>I lost a few kilos here (which later came back) and sorted out a few pieces of paper there. The result: both issues have led to dissatisfaction for me for years. I constantly had the feeling that I had to do something about it. Then I got to the point where I said:<\/p><h2>All or nothing<\/h2><p>I asked myself: <em>How much time do I want to invest to solve the problem once and for all?<\/em><\/p><p>For me, the answer was: 2 x 3 months.<\/p><p>From October to December, I draw clear lines around my food: no sugar, no flour, only three meals a day (no snacking in between) and I weigh what I eat.<\/p><p>Then the weight issue should be over and I will tackle the ship. Sort for 20 minutes every day except Sunday after work.<\/p><h2><strong>My strategy: a list of costs and benefits <\/strong><\/h2>This question helped me:<strong><\/strong><em>\"How much time\/energy\/money can it cost me to conquer an issue once and for all?<\/em><p>This question really helped me to find the energy to tackle this now. I had a concrete plan, a time frame and my inner yes to it.<\/p><p>How is it with you? 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