{"id":2261,"date":"2013-10-03T09:49:15","date_gmt":"2013-10-03T07:49:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kerstinpur.de\/?p=2261"},"modified":"2013-10-03T09:49:15","modified_gmt":"2013-10-03T07:49:15","slug":"discover-life-realise-needs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/en\/leben-entdecken-beduerfnisse-wahrnehmen\/","title":{"rendered":"Discovering life - recognising needs"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"IMG_0351\"<\/a><\/strong>Was I alive today?<\/h3>\n

Yes!<\/p>\n

What new things have I discovered about life?<\/h3>\n

Gifts \"lurk\" in places where you don't expect them. I was given a rich gift during a coaching session. The coaching guest was actually talking about work and my job was to help him gain clarity on whether and how he could continue with a particular project. But in the course of the conversation, it went beyond work to other levels: \"I would like to express what I really long for in the words that a counsellor once said: \"Helping people to stand upright and develop under God!<\/em><\/p>\n

This sentence was \/ is a gift for me. Because it also expresses my longing. That's why I write books, coach people, rebuild and expand the ship: Because I want to help people to stand upright and flourish under God.<\/p>\n

And yes: the first person I want to help with this can also be myself.<\/p>\n

What new things have I discovered about myself?<\/h3>\n
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I am still preoccupied with the topic of needs. It is very good for me to realise what I need. Sometimes I feel sad because some needs are so unfulfilled at the moment. But most of the time I find this very helpful When I know what I need most urgently, I can ask for it: myself, my God, people who like me.<\/p>\n

My current top 5 needs<\/h3>\n
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  • Encouragement:<\/em> Not in general terms \"You'll make it!\", but specifically and concretely: \"Look at what you've already achieved so far....and how far you've come...you can take the next step too...\"<\/li>\n
  • Physical relaxation:<\/em> Warmth, massages, relief for the back.<\/li>\n
  • Council:<\/em> Planning aid: How on earth do I do it with the entrance area and the engine room? Room layout and the right equipment.<\/li>\n
  • Practical help:<\/em> Another 18 hours of painting and tidying up, which should be done by next weekend so that we can then install the windows.<\/li>\n
  • Practical help: Help with getting things - auctioning on Ebay, picking up things in Berlin....<\/li>\n
  • Financial support:<\/em> Taking over one or the other position at Schiff - whether large or small.<\/li>\n
  • Be spoilt:<\/em> A little luxury...flowers, massages, body care, candles, a delicious meal...a beautiful dress ;-) ....<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Was I alive today? Yes! What new things have I discovered about life? Gifts \"lurk\" in places where you don't expect them. I became rich during a coaching session...<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"Leben entdecken - Bed\u00fcrfnisse wahrnehmen","_seopress_titles_desc":"Mich besch\u00e4ftigt das Thema Bed\u00fcrfnisse. Es tut mir sehr gut, mir dar\u00fcber klar zu werden, was ich brauche. Manche Bed\u00fcrfnisse sind gerade so wenig erf\u00fcllt.","_seopress_robots_index":"","_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2261","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-leben-meistern-swing"],"featured_image_data":null,"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":1,"label":"Leben meistern - Swing"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Kerstin Hack","author_link":"https:\/\/63cfd2629054c8f4hack.de\/en\/author\/63cfd2629054c8f4\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":1,"name":"Leben meistern - Swing","slug":"leben-meistern-swing","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":1,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":552,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":1,"category_count":552,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Leben meistern - Swing","category_nicename":"leben-meistern-swing","category_parent":0}],"tag_info":false,"ase":null,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2261","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2261"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2261\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2261"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2261"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2261"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}