{"id":254,"date":"2010-07-20T06:18:25","date_gmt":"2010-07-20T06:18:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kerstinpur.de\/?p=254"},"modified":"2010-07-20T06:18:25","modified_gmt":"2010-07-20T06:18:25","slug":"paare-kinder-und-die-liebe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/en\/paare-kinder-und-die-liebe\/","title":{"rendered":"Couples, children and love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Gestern habe ich gelesen,  dass 40 % der Eltern, die sich scheiden lassen, sich im ersten(!) Jahr  nach der Geburt des ersten Kindes trennen. Bei nicht verheirateten  Paaren ist die Anzahl derer, die sich im ersten Jahr nach der Geburt trennen noch h\u00f6her. Mich bewegt das. Die meisten wollen sich ja nicht trennen. Sie wollen gern zusammen bleiben. Aber irgendwie klappt es nicht.<br \/>\nEine riesige Trag\u00f6die f\u00fcr jedes Paar, jede Familie. Ein Verlust f\u00fcr alle &#8211; f\u00fcr die Geschwister, die vielleicht nie gezeugt und geboren werden, die Kinder die fehlen und die Kinder, denen es fehlt, dass Mami und Papi zusammen und bei ihnen sind.<br \/>\nIch frage mich, was  man tun kann, um junge Familien zu unterst\u00fctzen, dass sie Wege  miteinander finden, die herausfordernden Baby-Jahre zu meistern.<\/p>\n<p>Im Kontrast dazu habe ich gestern eine Mail von einem Mann bekommen, der seine seit Jahren schwer Demenzkranke Frau pflegt. Sie kann nicht mehr mit klaren Worten kommunizieren kann, muss gewickelt, gepflegt und gef\u00fcttert werden. Dennoch steht unter jeder Mail, die er schreibt, nicht nur sein Name als Signatur, sondern auch ihrer.<\/p>\n<p>Er schrieb mir, dass seine Liebe zu ihr immer noch w\u00e4chst und st\u00e4rker wird.<\/p>\n<p><!-- AddToAny BEGIN --><br \/>\n<a class=\"a2a_dd\" href=\"http:\/\/www.addtoany.com\/share_save?linkurl=http%3A%2F%2Fkersthackde.onpressidium.com%2Fbeziehungen%2Fpaare-kinder-und-die-liebe%2F&amp;linkname=\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/static.addtoany.com\/buttons\/share_save_171_16.png\" width=\"171\" height=\"16\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Share\"\/><\/a><br \/>\n<script type=\"text\/javascript\">\nvar a2a_config = a2a_config || {};\na2a_config.linkurl = \"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/beziehungen\/paare-kinder-und-die-liebe\/\";\n<\/script><br \/>\n<script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"http:\/\/static.addtoany.com\/menu\/page.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<!-- AddToAny END --><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gestern habe ich gelesen, dass 40 % der Eltern, die sich scheiden lassen, sich im ersten(!) 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