{"id":2714,"date":"2014-05-01T09:09:45","date_gmt":"2014-05-01T07:09:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kerstinpur.de\/?p=2714"},"modified":"2025-02-04T10:20:32","modified_gmt":"2025-02-04T09:20:32","slug":"breastfed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/en\/gestillt\/","title":{"rendered":"Breastfed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/2014-04-12-16.53.55.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-2715\" src=\"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/2014-04-12-16.53.55-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"2014-04-12 16.53.55\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>Over the last few weeks, I have been asking myself how I can deepen my inner connection to Jesus. In my search for answers, I pulled a book out of my \"I want to read this\" pile: <em>Breastfed<\/em> by David Zindel from the <a title=\"Neufeld Publishing House\" href=\"http:\/\/www.neufeld-verlag.de\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Neufeld Publishing House<\/a>. The subtitle \"Night Talks with David\" tells you what it's all about.<\/p>\n<p>I was annoyed at first. As a publisher, a good framework for a plot is important to me. And I lacked that. A stressed man who is unhappy in his marriage writes letters to King David - and the author hardly bothers to invent a framework for them - apart from an introductory letter in which it is reported how the publication of the letters was controversially discussed in heaven. I think there could have been a bit more imagination. I might have imagined the good man reading Psalm 23 in the evening \"I shall not want\"...and then writing a rather angry reply to the author.... in his Bible.... and being surprised the next evening to find a reply on the back of his letter...really from David.<\/p>\n<p>After the frame, I continued to be annoyed - by the stupidity of Reinhard, the writer. He is initially portrayed as someone who sees his wife as the sole cause of his marital problems. I know contemporaries - both men and women - who see the cause of problems primarily in others. Nevertheless - I don't think any man is as blatantly stupid with 0.0000 % self-knowledge as the good Reinhard at the beginning of the book - at least I hope not!!!<\/p>\n<p>Once I was over the first threshold, the book began to fascinate me. The good David writes from the perspective of eternity, looking back on his life - and has learnt a lot. I liked the way he repeatedly encouraged Reinhard not to look for fulfilment \/ fulfilment in things, but in his encounter with God. He writes and explains this again and again - in different variations and nuances... I really enjoyed it.<\/p>\n<p>A few of the most beautiful thoughts from the book (quoted from memory):<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>You can recognise the quality of a breastfeeding by the aftertaste (a very wise thought in my opinion, applies to food as well as to events and encounters).<\/li>\n<li>Pouring out your heart and letting it be filled again belong together. One without the other makes little sense. (I thought that was really good!)<\/li>\n<li>Spiritually dry times are God's gifts. He tries to free us from our own, not really effective attempts at breastfeeding.<\/li>\n<li>Obedience has to do with hearing. Obedience is the ability to hear.<\/li>\n<li>God wants to wash our dirty laundry white - not argue with us about its grey content.<\/li>\n<li>If we distance ourselves from things, we can then receive them anew from God and enjoy them - in a free way - as the satisfied, not as the longing, insatiable, insatiable, who take in everything - and because they remain unsatisfied - must constantly increase the dose.<\/li>\n<li>David looking back from heaven on his acts of revenge at the end of his life: \"Only today do I realise that a happy life consists of paying bills straight away - out of your own pocket if necessary.\"<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I gratefully put a good book aside...the valuable thoughts in it will stay with me for a long time.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Over the last few weeks, I have been asking myself how I can deepen my inner connection to Jesus. 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