{"id":8631,"date":"2018-04-16T10:08:10","date_gmt":"2018-04-16T10:08:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/?p=8631"},"modified":"2025-02-04T10:20:14","modified_gmt":"2025-02-04T09:20:14","slug":"the-best-question-before-change","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kerstinhack.de\/en\/die-beste-frage-vor-veraenderung\/","title":{"rendered":"Question of the week: Where should there be no change?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Longing for change<\/h2>\n

\"Ebook<\/a>Change is wonderful. I love changing, learning things and improving my life in one way or another.<\/p>\n

Also as Coach<\/a> I accompany people through change. People want to improve their relationship, lose weight, get rid of burdens and find new perspectives.<\/p>\n

As an author, I have written titles about change - including an ebook that explains how change can succeed and how you can 100 x easier to get into the new. <\/a>You can get this for free\u00a0download.\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>In the picture you can see me after I jumped into the water with my clothes on. The reason: I wanted to be sure that I could swim with my clothes on in an emergency. And I realised: I can.<\/p>\n

It's also clear that I actually prefer living on my houseboat on the Spree rather than on land - the change has been worth it for me.<\/p>\n

No need for change<\/h2>\n

Change is often wonderful. But the desire for change can also create pressure. Especially if you are hoping for more happiness and satisfaction from the change. This is sometimes - not always - the case. In any case, you will be happier if you first enjoy the hoped-for change instead of rushing straight to the next change project.<\/p>\n

In order to counter the pressure to constantly change, it can be worthwhile to first take a look at the areas of life that should not change. And not because they are already good.<\/p>\n

Hence the question of the week:<\/p>\n

What in your life should stay that way,<\/strong><\/p>\n

as it is,<\/strong><\/p>\n

because it is good?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I ask myself this question again and again. Mainly because it slows me down in a good way and puts the desire for change, which is practically always there for me, into a meaningful framework. Yes, I want to improve, change, make things more beautiful and more effective - there's no question about it. Change is exciting and attractive to me. I love development and new things.<\/p>\n

What should not change for me?<\/h2>\n

But despite all the longing for change, it is also clear that much of my life should remain as it is because it is already good.<\/p>\n